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Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Couple Corner#3- Love!Love! Love


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My entry for Couples Corner is very late as I was very busy taking care of my lil munchkins herewho are both not feeling well because both of them has cough and colds. Both of them already had harsh voices due to the hard cough. So, I was having second thought and running out of time in writing my "We are Inlove" post for Couple Corner hosted by Liza. I love this meme, that is why even if its late already got to share my luvtory hehehe. Let me start by sharing this;
lOve knows no reason, love knows no lies, love has no eyes, but love s not blind, love sees but it dosn't mind, it simply enables one to see things others fail to see..'

This is really true, you get blinded with love. Babger already fell in love with me after two months of exchanging emails and phone conversation. While I was in denial until I met him in person. Imagine this, on the first time he called me, he can't stop talking on the phone that is why his phone bills reached almost a thousand because he didn't have the cheapest phone plan, and we talked for more than five hours. I had to charge my cell while talking coz I can't get rid of him. Actually, I really tried not to believed in love, because for me two people fell in love because the choose to. But when hubby started controlling my life when we were still BF/GF I just don't understand what power or forces why I can't refuse to whatever he said despite my stubbornness. So, after my husband's visits he came back to the US with all the necessary documents to start the visa processed to get me here. We talked on the phone almost everyday, he had his office computer hooked up with YM so we could talk at ym every night too, and sent emails everyday, that was his order. He wasn't my husband yet but he was controlling me as his own property, even I was so annoyed and irritated I let him, well blame the love. Not just all lovey dovey we talked over the phone we also fight a lot because of this possessiveness attitude, that even if I was in the middle of my class he would call because he misses me yuck! hehehe. In the morning, my husband calls woke me up at 5:00, then called me again at lunch time to say hello, and that hello is not just hello as in 30 mins. hello and then at night he was already at his office 5:00 in the morning US time to talk to me. What I don't understand, even if I was complaining a lot to myself I just can't say NO. I was having doubts and second thoughts of coming here to live with that kind of attitude, but I already surrendered the Bataan plus I had this promised to myself that if I reach 30 and I am still single, I am not gonna marry anymore and rather stay single for the rest of my life. So, if I broke up with him, I can't find any guy as persuasive, thoughtful and handsome like him, and he love me and I don't want to get hurt or hurt him either. With all the divine intervention, I was convinced and believed that he is the right man for me. I really don't want to leave my job and good life back home but I had to chose between work and love. Well the latter won. My principal said, I better filed and absence of leave instead of resignation just in case... The day before my flight we still had a fight about some disagreement. To end this story i still went to the airport and get on the plane by myself and wave bye bye to Cebu City and Philippines. I sent my friends text messages saying goodbye and called my parents since no one knows about my plans including my parents, aunts and some close friends. Only my closest friends at school knew that I am leaving on the 24th of May. I guess we are in love, despite of our differences, disagreement, race, cultures blah blah blah we still got married and continue being poor and in love with our adorable bundles of joy waaaaahh.




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23 comments:

Chie Wilks said...

sis Tsang...i find your banana so sweet when he is calling u bisag naa ka class..heheheh mura og atat kaau siya..as in sabik na sabik sa imoha..it was just cute..and sweet

Lulu said...

pobre nga puno sa gugma! life and love goes on!!! pilay palad madatu sa sige atang opps hehehe

kuyaw pod ka mami shy kay wala man jud kahibawo imong parents... na sa ako pag interview nako sa embassy kauban tawon akong mama sya nag plantsa sa akong sinina hehehe

chubskulit said...

Hahahha Bakla ka talaga bayot hahaha, naisurender na pala ang bataan.. Oo nga naman saka to hell with what is right, as long as you followed what your heart desires. So di pala alam nina mama mo bakla ang pag alis mo? Grabe na etoh to the max na talaga hahaha.. Natatawa ako sa being poor lol... To hell with that at least may anak tayo diba...

Hope J&J will be better soon... Nahihirapan ako magcomment dito sa blog na ito baklits so tagal magload hahaha.. I am not complaining though kasi enjoy to the max ako sa kabaklaan mo.. Mwah!

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Medyo naiintriga ako sa sobrang pagka possessive ng mister mo nuong nagliligawan pa lang kayo. Signs of insecurity kasi yung sobrang possessive. Sana naman ay okay ang pagsasama nyo at hindi naman nakasasakal ang pagiging possessive niya. I do hope he trust you enough to let you live your own private life. Hindi naman lahat ng aspect ng life nang isang tao ay pwedeng hawakan ng ibang tao. Pero tama ka, talagang mahal mo siya dahilk in spite of his pagka over possessive ay minahal mo pa rin siya at nag decide kang pumunta sa America para sa kanya. Mali lang yung self imposed condition mo sa sarili mo nuon na hindi ka na magaasawa pag lumagpas ka nang trenta. Dios lang ang nakakatalos kung ano ang layunin Niya para sa atin. Very interesting yung love story mo kaya binasa ko kahit mahaba. Thanks for the post. God bless you always.

Sunil Gupta said...

Good blog and Nice posting.
Priya | True Hindi Love Story

Andrea said...

Wow, I really admire your courage to leave your life as you knew it behind! That couldn't have been easy!!! But what a great reward to see your beautiful children every day and know you did the right thing. I hope you like this country and am glad you & your husband have a good marriage.

kikamz said...

mommy shy, musta na mga lil munchkins mo? meron pa rin ba colds? here are some cold remedies for them. give my hugs to them. hope they will get well soon.

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Lisa said...

Ohhh lil munchkin's nagka colds Shy, lisod gyod bitaw na oi labina sila gyod duha...Hope and pray Ok na labina karon tingtug naw na....Kiss and hug for them!!!

Mom of Four said...

Kapag yata LOVE talaga ang dumating sa buhay ng isang tao, ke possesive, ke obsessive i o overlook, masunod lang ang puso. Hay alam mo bang kapag kami eh magkalayo ni Mister, dyosko, kahit 5 years na kami kasal at 8 years na kami magkakilala, lagi kaming nagtatalo, at nag aaway kahit sa YM. Nahihirapan silang malayo sa atin, yan ang totoo. Natatakot sila at dahil mga beauty tayo eh na iinsecure. Kaya si hubby ko, ayaw mag work sa ibang lugar, di raw kayang mawala ako sa paningin niya kahit isang araw lang. Yuk!

I am so glad that you are happy, yaan mo ng poor, basta nagmamahalan at masaya kayo okay lang. Mas mahirap nga ang rich, baka laging nakikiapg date sa iba, hehehe..

Great story..I enjoyed reading it..

Dhemz said...

hhahahah...shuang man ka tsang woi....sige ko katawaha dire.....maau jud ka mo gama sa....

dko ka agwanta nga dko kabasa sa imong entry....imbis akong lutason akong ginhawa kay naa me quiz unya....hahhaha....dko ka tagad ug basa bayot!

agoy ang jose, nahigugma naman dayon nga 2 months pa gani ang communication....nakapanag-iya lagi dayon woi...murag parehas sa baboy sa merkado tsang ba...tatakan dayon purple kay ni pasa sa DFA.....joke...hahaha!

halaka as in? my gosh, wala man jud ka tantani tawon woi, mura man sya ug nakapanawag ra dire sa US kay sayon sayonon raman ug tawag ang pinas...nge si goryo ayha raman to naka panawag after nig-uli dire...unya 3x a week ra manawag...unya 1 hour ra pa jud permi....waaaaa...kuripot lagi tawon...

sos kami jud ang g tadhana tsang...bisan unsa nga unos ang g agi sa inyo duha....kamo jud!

agoy, sige day mo away sa una...hahaha...kuyawa pod tawon...mao ba....kami nuon wala pa me nag-away ato nga time...wala pa ni gawas among mga sungay.....after na 1 year namo nga pag minyo...nitubo ang sungay bayot!....hahhaha

wala ka man diay ka pananghid sa imong familia me amor diay.....ikaw ra lugar naghawa gikan sa airport? na katong kami tsang tawon...murag tibuok barangay ang nikuyog ug hatod....joke...grabi nga hinilaka tawon, mabuang ko maria....hahahha!

sos pagka sweet sa pic tawon woi, sibo man kaau ang mga kamot....love this pic tsang...bubbly kaau mong duha...kita kaau ang mga gugma....naka sakwat jud si joe nimo...hhehe....:)

woi, namuot ko sa imong comment bayot..as in! gipakandilaan man jud yotz...ahhaha..parehas pod diay ta no...kay sa akong bday man pod to natungon....nya sa St.Agustine ko nagdagkot tsang...sa gaston park ba nga church....hheehhee....

abangan ko pod ni next week...kay ganahan ko ug basa...ehhehe!

salamat for being so open tsang....hala bayot murag taas na kaau akong yawyaw dire tawon...balik rako unya..mag tuon sako ha...mwah....kisses sa mga dinos nimo...kaluoy ba woi, nagsakit man day sila duha.

Meryl (proud pinay) said...

“O pag-ibig na makapangyarihan, pag pumasok sa puso ninuman hahamakin ang lahat...masunod ka lamang". ^_^
talaga nga namang tama ang kasabihang iyan...talagang pag inlove...as in gagawin talaga ang lahat para sa minamahal..masasabi kong napakasweet ng hubby mo...ang swerte mo sis ...at siya din swerte sa iyo kc mabuti kang asawa at mommy sa iyong kids...

naku kawawa naman ang mga cute na chikitings..nagkasakit pala....uso talaga yan ngayon...sana gumaling na sila. hirap pa naman magkasakit...

momgen said...

Aguy amigason gyd mo ani heheheh.

Cecile said...

very interesting imong love story, tsang :-); malingaw ko pag basa ani uy! love talaga bisan possessive or not, pag mahal pikit gud atong mata uy kay mahal man nato atong bana :-).

bahala poor basta rich sa love yun ang importante...natawa ko kay ingon nimo na gisuko na nimo ang bataan, ok ra guyd kay kayo man nagkatuluyan.

hope, j and j colds are gone now and that they are feeling better.

hopeful said...

Ka obvious jud sis nga inlove, picture palang daan murag lisod na bulagon..

I'm happy for you nga kamo jud ang gitadhana ni Lord.

kat said...

waaaa...hahaha patawa ka Tsang...ng dahil sa bataan, go go go..hahaaha..di oi, gi-surrender ang bataan kay sean connery na gud ng naa sa atubangan. maski ako, kung di sya muangay sa akong bataan, ako ang magpatindog sa iya flag pole nyahahaah...

hoy okay na ba nang duha ka tsikiting??..sus lisod jud ning bata magkasakit, maypa kita na lang ang magkaskit kay kabalo man ta modala pero ang bata kay dili..whope na ok na silang duha.

babozz na nga nag uros uros na gugma...

Hi! I'm Grace said...

Nalingaw ko basa sa imo love story ay. Join nya ko ani next time na lang. :)
Hala noh, as in wala jud ka nananghid sa imo pamilya nga moanhi na ka sa US. Ka-risky ba ana oy. But it turned out to be fine ra man sab hinoon. And obviously, wala man sab ka nagmahay. That is love. :)

Cecile said...

nah, ikaw jud; bot an man mo; ganyan siguro marriage eh; kami sad naay fight, usahay gusto nako uli sa Pinas; ako man siguro devilish kay usahay wa gamay man kaayo nga problema ako na pinadako :-); maayo kay gugma jud niya ko kaayo mao to siya na mo ask forgivm=ness, unya ako man gud pakipot pa kaayo, mao to usahay mohilak jud na siya.

but gugma sad nako siya kay sige jud ko mo forgive sa iya kung siya man gud naay sala :-).

se nagawas jud ang devil na nagatago sa ako hehehe, waahhh

Jacris said...

aww, so sweet nyo d2 sis =) I love it! btw, your love story grabe kinikilig ako hahahah!!

Jacris said...

aww, so sweet nyo d2 sis =) I love it! btw, your love story grabe kinikilig ako hahahah!!

David Funk said...

Wow Shydub, I have to say I admire your courage of leaving everything behind and moving here to the USA. We can't predict what the future holds. But looking at this, it is clear you made the correct one.

I haven't seen but a couple of pictures of you before. And I must say your hubby is lucky to have a beautiful woman like you! :)

Thanks for sharing my dear friend!

teJan said...

perti jud nga 'forces' shang! hahahah..hmmm I enjoy reading it!

Seiko said...

Naisuko na pala nag bataan ahaha!!He's so possessive pala that made you grumbled & irritated.Ganyan yata talaga pag inlove nagiging possessive talaga at nag pa-possessed ka naman!Ahaha!!Kahit yata ako syempre inlove no second thouht he possessed me hehe.
Naku Sheila pareho pala sila ni hubby ko ang laki lagi ng telephone bill nya everyday din kasi kung tumawag & lasts for hours may morning afternoon & evenng pa hehe parang meals 3 times a day.Minsan nga nabanggit nya kung nauso lang sana ang YM nung kapanahunan namin eh di sana hindi malaki ang binayaran nya ahaha!!Sounds grumbling this time.
I enjoyed reading your post actually w/ matching kilig kilig & smile in here nakakaliw kasing basahin ng mga posts mo sabi nga nila may pagka bakla daw & I agree!
Gosh!Baka naman ma-confuse ka dito sa comment ko sa yo hehe either I confused din.Am I doing a post entry here?
Get well soon to JAke & Justine.KAwawa naman ang mga cute angels not feeling well.Ingat ka din Mommy!Mwah!

ruby said...

hahah nice kaayo ang inyo love story, maka relate ko anang POOR and In love nga line murag kami sad..

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