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Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Couples Corner - Kiss and Make Up


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I'm sorry guys, I missed to post the last topic of Couples Corner. We were on thanksgiving vacay. Well, just imagine in some of our worse misunderstanding Sheila will always packed up and threatened out to go back to the Philippines, or divorced, sometimes I screamed like "I wanna get depooorted". I know, I'm such a bitchy brat. I just don't like fights, and we had plenty of fights as in every two weeks for more than a year in our marriage. After in all our misunderstanding hubby would just run to the nearest wendys food chain and take out some jr beacon cheese burger and chicken wrap for our kiss and make up. (yup! pagkain lang katapat ko.)

The last misunderstanding we had was 2 months ago I think. I was exhausted taking care of my kids while hubby was upstairs taking a nap, and when he woke up he went outside to smoke and chit chat to his friend over the phone. I was very tired and angry then, so when he went inside grinning, I exploded. Handed him Justine, throw the keyboards at him, put on my shoes and jacket and went for a very long walk. Our fight took like almost a week because i didn't want to make peace. I slept at Justine's room for 5 days. When my anger settled down, after many days of cooling off my mind, I decided to talk to him in a calm way. We kiss and make up by ordering out at Wendy's and went to the mall on the weekend. It takes two to tango to make the marriage work, and we are really trying hard to make it work for our kids and our family. I am praying really hard to have our marriage work out forever that we will learn to understand, respect, and trust each other and also offer our life and everything to God.

22 comments:

Clarissa said...

Si Mommy Shy talaga!!Burger lang ba ang katapat??lol!!Kami din dati madalas mag-away ng asawa ko--at least ikaw,merong pagkain for the kiss and make-up.Ako,pinapabayaan lang lol!!\(^0^)/

Dhemz said...

AMEN! hallelujah......cheers bayot for being so open and honest!

my gosh....imo raman diay ka tapat kay pagkaon....waaaaaaa..sayon ra puyokon ni jose diay tsang....hahhahah!

mamauot ko sa imong line nga "I wanna get deported"...lol!

hahhaha...5 days man diay jud to sa....for the record man diay to nga mahay....ako kay d pwede ug maabtan ug 24 hours kay d kahimutang ning akong goryo...mabuang ni sya nako...kay parehas nimo gahi sad ug ulo...waaaaaaa!

maau jud tsang kay ipababaw jud nato ang atong familia de amor.....kay louy sad atong mga pispis...kung unsa man galing mahitabo....unsaon man jud ning life sa minyo woi...walay lami kung way spices...dapat naa jud sila gamay tsang no...ehehhehe!...:)

thanks for sharing bayot...malingaw ko sa imong entry....:)

Dhemz said...

sili diay tsang...dili sila...shuang man ko woi...lol!

eds said...

Wendy's lang pala ang katapat. hehe pero bakit nga ba taung mga wifey when we work hard tapos un mga hubby natin eh magnanap or telebabad nakakadagdag ng stress na minsan naglelead na para sumabog ang emotion. hehe nangyayari din kasi sa akin yan. halimbawa habang ako eh naglilinis ng abo ng kanyang cgarilyo tapos patawa-tawa habang may kausap sa mobile. naku ang hudas nakuha pang magtelebabad eh ni hindi malinis ang sariling kalat. hehe maliit na isyu lang nman pero pag palagi eh lalong lumalaki hindi ba ..

eto pala ang version ko >> http://mydigihome.info/?p=288

Lulu said...

agoy 5 days saonz nalang! we never fought for over a day... when I get mad even at little things I end up crying... kapag magdrama na ko sa cry cry hadlok na ang bana kay basin kuno mosumbong ko nga gidaug daug lol

well naa man daghan wendy's so okay ra ug mag away...

maybe ug kakaon onon ka wendy's pangita nalang away hehehehe

Lulu said...

agoy 5 days saonz nalang! we never fought for over a day... when I get mad even at little things I end up crying... kapag magdrama na ko sa cry cry hadlok na ang bana kay basin kuno mosumbong ko nga gidaug daug lol

well naa man daghan wendy's so okay ra ug mag away...

maybe ug kakaon onon ka wendy's pangita nalang away hehehehe

Mom of Four said...

Pareho pala tayong pagkain lang ang katapat, ehehehe. Aba eh kesa sa wala di ba? hehehe. Bihira lang naman kaming mag misunderstanding ni hubby ko, kasi di ako tatantanan non ga't di ko siya kinakausap eh. Kahit madaling kayong nagkaka misunderstanding, loves na loves nyo pa rin ang isa't isa..

iTravel said...

waaaa..hahaha imoha Tsang kay "i wanna get deported"..ako pod kung mag -away mi kay "go back to your country and never come back again" hhaha..sya man ako ipa deport hahaha.

very funny imo entry Tsang...gusto jud ko apil ani ba kaso basig mabasahan sa akong banana nga mabaw kaayo ug utok...masuko kong mag share ko ug bahin sa among duha...ako lagi ning ilisan ba kay labad kaayo sa utok...ngita na lang ko ani ug lain..promise.

makatawa man ko nimo Tsang nga pagkaon ray katapat...maayo kay matulon pa nimo ang imong pagkaon nga galagot man ka hahaha...maayo gani imo bana kay dili jud murag vulcan kung masuko...hahaha...

Cecile said...

Tsang, nalingaw ko sa imong entry uy; wendy's diay imong katapat :-), ako sad usahay pagkaon jud ang katapat.

You know what ako rin i will do whatever it takes to save our marriage for my son's sake...i really like you so much kasi you are so honest eh, walang tinatago.

Ok lang gud mag kamisunderstanding, kasi part na yun ng married life; gaya nga sabi ni Dhemz, spice of life yun para medyo may challenge at di boring:-)

momgen said...

Oy dugaya 5 days gyd diay akoa dali ra shy 1-2 hours wala na dugay na gani na ang 2 hours. Ako man bana maoy sabaan ako kay hilom ra di amn ko ganhan og away then akoa man siya ingnon nga murag pinoy balik balik mao na di na siya magbalik balik ug storya kay moingon gyd ko dayon nga human niya na mention hehhehe. Naa to one time away mi mga 2 months ko buntis hingtago gyd ko sa amo packhouse siya kabuang na ug pangita hapit na gyd niya nacall ang sheriff patabang hahhahaha. Bitaw agi ra ko.

teJan said...

Grabe sad ka di motingog shang usa man ka semana..mamatay nako ana! lol! wala guro ka paliti dayon ug burger..heheh jokes!

haaay.. ganyan tagala buhay syang but let God alwats be the center of the relationship and everything will be just fine;)

sweet_shelo said...

Kaloka ka sis.. 5 days of feud talaga ha.. pero Wendys lang pala katapat mo ha.. haha.. Pero alam mo, grabe ka pala talaga nuh pag sumabog...

Sis, late na ang entry ko.. but you can check it.. Thanks

Bambie dear ★ said...

lol nice naman... ang swerte ng Wendy's sa inyo lol. Dati ganyan din ako, medyo ma-pride at super hot magalit, pero ngayon try ko na talaga manahimik kasi nakakasawa. Parang di ko yata kaya ang 5 days.. siguro kung nasa pinas ako, kaya ko.. wala kasi mga ka-chikka dito eh.

here's mine (late din ako)

http://fabbielous.blogspot.com/2009/12/kiss-and-make-up.html

Seiko said...

Grabe Shy 5 days?!Hindi ko yata kaya yon,bihira lang kami magkaroon ng misunderstanding but it wont last for a day,after an hour isang kiss lang presto!!Tanggal na ang tampo lol!
Well natawa talaga ako dito sa entry mo burger ang katapat ng irritations mo lol!
Btw,na miss ko talaga dito pareho pala tayong nawala for a while dito,medyo busy pa rin dito lalo na ngayon December,the busiest season among the seaso.I have missed Jake & Justine so much din.Hope ok lang sila at walang nagkakasakit.Just please send my warmest hugs & kisses to J & J.Hugs!Take care & God Bless!

chubskulit said...

wahahahaah buti di ka tumataba bakla hahahaha...; kakatuwa tong episode hehehe, hay i miss blogging already.. sumisilip lang ako badingding to thank you for your constant visits kahit wala ako, greatly appreciate it.. sakit ng wankata ko, di kami lahat makatulog kagabi, jetlag siguro.. now i am floating..

Melanie said...

hahaha ang babaw pero yan ang kiliti natin :-) It is always good to kiss and make up..it makes your love stronger..kahit minsan kakapagod... wag mag pa deport..kawawa naman si Justine and the little princess.

lina@happy family said...

I agree. If we're in angry, it's better say nothing first. We need time to calm ourselves. When it settled down, it's the right time to communicate heart by heart.

Ms. Marie said...

ahhh i'm sorry. i only speak english. i've been meaning to learn, but haven't yet. what is it you were asking? i understand that its about my contest, but i'm not sure what else. thanks for your patience!

♡ N o r e e n said...

hahahhaa kaloka batuhin ba ng keyboard??? pero yeah gets kita! minsan nakakapikon ang ganyan lalo na pag ikaw gumagawa lahat sa bahay mula sa pag-alaga, pagluto, paglaba, pamamalengke, etc etc jusko!

Jac said...

ganyan din ako minsan tlagang tinitiis ko hubby ko na di kausapin pro minsan di ko na kaya kaya ako sumusuko ako na kumakausap ehehe...Food din ang ka tapat ko peace offering nya sa akin dpat favorite food ko lol..

Andrea-Memories As A Mom said...

My favorite quote about marriage was said by my best friend at our wedding: "Marriage is falling in love over and over. . .always with the same person." Now that I've been married almost 7 years I understand that. Marriage is full of ups and downs, the hard part is overcoming the down times so you can experience the ups! I hope you guys can make it work forever, too.

tashabud said...

Yeah, I wish hubby would offer to take me to Wendy's after a fight. He leaves me to fend for myself. Wah!!!!

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