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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Couples Corner - When Jealousy Arises...


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Our electricity just came back on few minutes ago, that is why my entry for Couple Corner is a bit late. Thanks to Mommyliz for hosting this Wednesday meme Couples Corner. And this week topic is ...when jealousy arises...

When the jealousy mega store had the jealousy super sale, my babger bought them all(pinakyaw lahat). He is not just jealous person, he is paranoid. Paranoia is a thought process heavily influenced by anxiety or fear, often to the point of irrationality and delusion. Paranoid thinking typically includes persecutory beliefs concerning a perceived threat towards oneself.

He gets paranoid when a nobody person who just glance or happen had the eyes looking at us or if my eyes wondering around and some guy passing by (kahit hindi ko pa alam my dumaan pala) babger would pout his lips and wrinkled his forehead because he was jealous. He thought I was looking at that guy and attracted with that guy. (dumi talaga ng utak ng kalbo). Every time he acted that way it irritated me. I remembered it was a month after I got here in the US when I packed up and called my sister to help me out for a ticket going home. He explained to me why and how he got that paranoia in his head, and promised to control it. Now, he is not that paranoid anymore but still has the jealousy every now and then. (Haay taong takot sa sariling multo)Now, every time hubby is jealous, I just ignored him.

I am really hoping and praying that he would change and start to trust people or himself. Amen!

13 comments:

Joops said...
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chubskulit said...

Oiiiist first commenter ako.. a am pa lang bakla, i tried going to bed early kaso nagising ako sa kakaubo wahhhhhhhh..

sarap tampalin ni kalbo hahahha sa sobrang kainsecuran ano bakla.. buti naman at nababawasan na ang pagiging jealous. A guy like him is the reason why pinapapahirapan mga immigrant na gaya natin sa CFO (dumaan ka ba dun bakla) yung bago irelease yung certificate.. Pinapakita muna lahat ng masasamang videos na nangyayari sa pinays sa ibang bansa.. You're walways in my prayer bakla na sana God will clear up his mind and heart kasi you deserve to be fully happy.. mwah..

Clarissa said...

Amen to that,Mommy Tsang!!Grabe naman cya,di ka na nga naliligo eh lol!!At least feeling mo na beauty ka sa paningin nya--masama nga lang yung pagiging sobrang seloso.

Lulu said...

Amen to Mami Rose... dumaan din ako sa CFO but it didn't affect me i mean the videos they showed dahil ako ay isang tigre...kaya di ako pwedeng apihin!

Seriously, haba ng hair ni mami shy kasi kahit di naliligo nagseselos pa rin si Jose.

When I was new here Dave get jealous if I wear those skinny tight hugging clothes... what is... sexy ko sauna no! Karon noon nga TAMSI (tambok pero sexy) na he doesn't care if i wear the shortest short I can find! He even encourages me to wear sexy clothes... waaaa pangdisplay na akong pagka TAMSI

teJan said...

mao jud! very well said shy! anyways.. just dropping by.. ngdali ko! balik rakog hop sa uban nimo gingharian later!

happy CC!

kat said...

waaa...nya wa pod nag sipilyo waaaa..
sus Tsang, wa man diay ni kalainan sa akong banana nga hiwi ug utok...pero kanunay jud noon ko suot ug sexy, lipstick, eyebrows, eyelashes, short pants, mini skirt ug uban pang kakikayan...pero lagot japon ko kay suko sya pag naa mutan-aw sa ako na foreigner hahaha...ako buhaton kay holding hands jud ming duha kay aron way gubot inig uli balay nyahaha.

ShY said...

@t Chubskulit.....Noon yun bakla, pero ngayon bahala siya sa buhay nya. Minsan pinaiinis ko talaga I wear shorts. nawawala rin selos niya kasi wala akong paki, hindi ko yan kinakausap pag umataki ang pagiging seloso. Release kaagad certificate ko dun sa CFO, hindi nga umabot ng half day. Dumaan ako sa CFO bakla pero hindi naman yun nakakaapekto sa akin kasi hindi naman nanakit si jose at saka mas takot itong iwan kaya nagsosory rin. Ngayon I can really see that he is trying his best not to feel jealous.

Dhemz said...
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Dhemz said...

hahhaha...mabuang ko sa mga comment dire woi.....:)

AMEN to sis bakla....bitaw, hope someday soon....joe will realize it!

kuyaw sad ni ug bana kay bisan magkaramutsing atong dagway kay mag selos man japon....na ako tsang kung mag wear ug make up nga moingon man dayon..."did you wear make up? it looks good on you"...waaaaaa...mura man ko ug bayot kung mag make up...may pag mamulbos lang ko..saon ning polbo ni akesha nga starchy man....lol!

na joker kaau ning america tsang no? kay dre rako katuon d manudlay, d maligo everyday, bilin permi balay...sos sa daga pata...mau makalakaw ug way pahumot...blush on dayon, ligo pa everyday bahala ug panuhoton....lol!

na ako tsang kay magselos man ko usahay....you know pag naa girls..d man jud kalikayan sa laki nga mo glance...ako dayon na sya ingnon..."what are you looki'n at?" agoy tigre lagi ko...

pero si goryo, wala pa man nuon ni nagselos nako...kinsa jud iyang kasilusan tawon...moingon jud na sya usahay....who is your ex bf? give me his name and SSN? waaaa....joker pod ning akong bana..gakasugod na raba ni ug kaupaw....lol!

nalingaw ko ug basa sa imong entry tsang...wala nako nag apil woi...kapuyan ko ug sulat..taas kaau...wala ko enough time....thanks for sharing again tsang....:)

labay sako kadali kay bag-o lang ko ka mata....mingaw sa life woi..walay opps...lol!

kisses sa mga cuties nga pispis diha...mwah!

Melanie said...

amen to you shy! hirap ng selosong asawa..buti nalang di seloso asawa ko..hehehe...lam mo ba nag cocoment ako isang kamay lang nag type kc me hawak na baby tulog! hay...nagpapakahirap makapag blog hop lang..hehehe...

Bambie dear ★ said...

lol alam ko serious ka pero dinaan mo pa rin sa pagpapatawa.. ako din AMEN to that. Siguro may tao talagang super seloso ta medyo mahirap ng alisin. Kaya tama ang ginagawa mo, ignore him kaya lang syempre kailangan din bigyan ng assurance.. pweding nagpapansin lang sya or gusto magpalambing diba.

shydub said...

Isa rin yam bamz, talagang KSP itong asawa ko, kulang sa patid hehehe. He always want to hear assurances and sweetnothings. Piling pili lng talaga araw ko kung tinutupak, I am sweet. thanks for the comments guys.

Seiko said...

Amen to that!Ahaha!!Ikaw talaga as what as Bams have had said baka naman naglalambing lang talaga.But then ang sarap din ng feeling pag nagseselos sabo nga nila feeling long hair daw hehe but then pumapangit pag sobra na.:D

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