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Thursday, August 12, 2010

Watching The Same Show and Jake's Behaviour




I was uploading old pictures for my second batch prints order in Artscow when I saw this old photo of Jake watching Hi5. He was still six months old in this picture. He was also fascinated with the show Wilbur that even if he was in the kitchen or room he runs right away to the living room if he heard the theme songs of the show. He out grew the show Wilbur when he was around 16 months old but not the Hi5 show. Until now he love watching this show and watch it everyday. Justine on the other hand doesn't have her own preferences. I haven't seen her showing the same interest like Jake with TV shows when she was little. She watched this shows because Jake is watching it. She grows up to like the show because Jake loves it and watches it everyday. I missed those days when Hi5 shows have calming effect on Jake that he never bugged me while I'm in front of the computer. Now is totally different because he wants the Hi5 show keep on playing on TV and DVD but he was everywhere pissing Justine off or climbing around and pissing me off. I miss my calm, gentle agreeable, good and happy little buckaroo. His attitude changed when Justine arrived. We explain it to him that we both love them but he is just a baby and doesn't understand everything yet. Yesterday I asked hubby if we missing something like not giving him enough attention because he becomes so mean at Justine lately. He pushes her, pull her hair, ride on her, wrestle her, poke or hit her with toys as in physically hurting her. Justine love playing with him even if he plays rough to her. I regretted those times that I spank him when he misbehaves because he kind of doing it to Justine. Our 1-2-3 magic and time out has started to worn out. He still listens to it but if he is the wild mode or tantrum mode he doesn't care. He changes his behavior every minute of the day. He starts from being sweet to being mean, and from being protective big brother to monster. Everyday different personality of Jake we are dealing with. Generally speaking he is a very good boy but because of jealousy or sibling rivalry he does bad things to get our attention. I really think we miss something in disciplining him. Parenting is hard and I wish there's a manual that we could buy so every kids grow up the way we want them to be.

13 comments:

LODS said...

i witness those pud with kayla and kaitlyn shy. i think its part of growing up and finding themselves. they dont realy know at this age what they are doing if its right or wrong, acceptable or not. they are still babies and mayhe jake things that justine doesnt get hurt.Kayla and kaitlyn have sweet moments but sus mag away pud.. lately si kayla mo shagit ni kaitlyn si kailtyn mo hilak intawon kay kakuyawan man siya.but i tell kayla to apologize kay nahadlok iya sister niya..

i think all babies goes throught a different phase specially that they are still developing.just make sure nga they are not left unattended for long periods of time.I know jake loves his sister but mairita lng siguro na siya karon kay naa na siya ka share,lol

chubskulit said...

Tama si Lods bading, ganyan din tong dalawa ko, am surprised nga at wala pa akong puting buhok lol. They will outgrow it eventually, just be there for them all the time and they'll be okay.

Mel Cole of PA, USA said...

Nindota ibisita dinha oi. Bibo ayo kids, diria George ay, natulog nga buntag dako.

Umma said...

That is a common scenario tsang, I guess Jake is in that stage pa just like my Koala though he is the only son naa pod tantrums. Favorite nya na word karon is NOOOO...

pareho na sila sa akoang SIL, boy and girl sad.. murag dogs and cats kon mag inaway. Soon Jake will outgrow it but make sure to give him some undivided attention too.

Lea said...

Expected jud na sa kids labi na sa 1st two based sa ako mga pamangkin nga nitipon sa amo b4 mka witnessed jud ko unsa ka gubot..bsan ako gani dli kasabot sa kagubot until finally I have my own family and kid. Though c Meg ra usa sa pagka karn nag expect nami ug scenario nga maing-ana jud c meg kung naa nay little bro/sister...part of growing up hehehe..

Silvergirl said...

they are so soooooooooooo cute. i wish i have still a baby.

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Commit your son to the Lord and He will change him for the better. Train your child in the way he should go and when he grows up, he will not depart from it. Iba talaga ang dating nang mga bata ngayon. They readily develop a rebellious character. Prayers and entrusting him to the Lord will help him a lot. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.

Bambie dear ★ said...

Naku sis ang hirap ng kalagayan nyo kung tutuusin.. super liit pa kasi ni jake kaya kahit gaano nyo pa i-explaine sa kanya, di nya mage-gets. Siguro hindi talaga maiiwasan ang sibling rivalry pag super close yung age gap. Kami ng sis ko kasi 6 years pero never kami nagka-selosan. Idol nga nya ako kaya gusto ko din medyo may gap yung kasunod ni Anzy para ateng ate sya.

I guess mga kuya/lalaki yata ang seloso.. yung pinsan ni Azumi kasi na ri Ryukun, nagseselos, pero si Azumi naman, never ko pa nakita nagselos pag may hawak ako ibang baby..

Siguro while Justine is still a baby pa lang, yung tipong di pa sya marunong magselos, be extra sweet na lang kay Jake.. lalo siguro nya siguro napapagtripan si Justin kapag napapagalitan sya.. Try nyo kaya ito although im not sure ha..

_el@i_ said...

oh, notty justine. hehehe. just guide him and let him feel loved basin diay mausab pa siya ig dako nya. hehehe. TGIF, shy ;)

_el@i_ said...

oh, notty justine. hehehe. just guide him and let him feel loved basin diay mausab pa siya ig dako nya. hehehe. TGIF, shy ;)

Mariuca said...

wahhhhh so many toys all over the place, have fun kids! :)

Anne said...

for sure tsang ana man tali ang mga bata pag gagmay pa murag iring ug iru...hahahah kami sad sa akong manghud di man mi pede magdikit kay sumbagay dayun. Pero in the long run sweet na sila...

Cecile said...

Normal naman na makalimot si Jake kay bata pa man siya...so even though you told him the same thing over and over again...he will forget it....si jake nako ganyan din, sige pa rin kalimot, kailangan lang ang patience natin...ma out grow din nila yan as they grow up and understand what we are tring to teach them...

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