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Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Couples Corner "I Do"


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It's time for RodLiz reality love story blog meme Couples Corner. I missed last week the proposal theme I'll just include it in this week theme "I DO"...

In those times that we were still exchanging emails, he slapped the I love yows number of times on emails. I got tired hearing it so I replied the 3 corny magic words back at him on July 22. So, that was it.... That was his proposal waaaaaa(shortcut huh?!) No rings, no blah blah blah. When Joe visited me, I thought he had the ring because he said he will have it when he visit me, but nope!Nada!Wa jamu! Poorz!...Since, that day was considered the proposal, so in other words we were engaged already. At first we planned to have the wedding in the Philippines if that would helped us get the Visa quickly, and we heard fiance visa is faster than spousal so the plan had changed.

Anyhow, after the first we met, that was when he visited me in Cebu City, Babger and I had countless of fights over the phone. The last fight before I flew here in US was about the wedding. He said, we could save money for the wedding if his friend will do the ceremony....(hmmm ang eye brows ibaba mga ining) I was shocked and confuse how can his friend able to do that??? I demanded for an explanation, so he said, "his friend is a minister as he just signed up online to be one, that is why he is allowed to marry us for free because they are friends" waaaaa(atimana mga bading parang mass wedding FREE hehehe). He abused my being so nice and agreeable, it sounds like a ripped off on my part. I think I deserved a decent wedding if it's not on the church at least something legal. I was super pissed, I turned off my cellphone and not answering all his calls.
To make the long story short, I got here on May 24th, bought a ring(engagement/wedding ring) only for me because we didn't have Sapi,and we got married on the 30th...fast forward as in automatic lol hehehe(namamadali bago mag iba ang isip) We had his friends as our witness and the magistrate office was just a block away from our apartment. So, we walked over there and got married in less than 30 mins. (Buti pa sa pinas may jeepney pang masasakyan atleast may kaunting thrill hehe)Pictures courtesy by his friend girlfriend because we didn't have camera then...poorz kasi pero in love toink!
......and we said "I DO" i do..yes I do... to this judge that we don't remember the name. And off to Rita's for our reception to avail the free coupon of gelatti, while his friends off went to their own place.(Parang wala lang, buti nalng hindi friends nya ang nagkasal sa amin)nyahaha whoa!lol. Alrighty guys, now visit the other couple corner and read some real, romantic, awesome, fabulous, solemn, all white wedding. ciao!

20 comments:

Mom of Four said...

I was laughing and giggling while reading your entry, nakakatawa ka, hehehe. Pati reception nyo, may discount coupon..at least kau nag reception, eh kami nga wala ni burgers..tapos naglakad lang kau papunta sa courthouse? di ka man lang kinarga pagtapos ng kasal? mas mainam nga sa Pinas, may tricycle, ehehehe..

Thrifty pala si Joe..I can imagine noong inis na inis ka na sa knya about the wedding, hehehe. Kahit sa cp inaaway mo, buti di nagbago ng isip. Ikaw naman syado mainit ang ulo..

So now, kasal na kau, happy ka na..hehehe..baka sabay na kau ng ka cut ng coupons sa paper..San kau dito sa US?

Dhemz said...

hhahaha...makabuyong man ning imong post tsang..sige lang jud ko katawa sa imong post....as in...joker jud ka kaau da.....heheheh! you started my day with a smile on my face.....:)

that's one thing I like about you tsang....spontaneous/direct to the point....and very honest....:)

kuyaw pod mo ni joe kay constant man inyong lalis bisan wala pa gani nagminyo...ehheheh!

korek...grabi kay g baktas man jud ang city hall woi....dagko raba kaau ug lakang...ehehhehe...bahala tsang basta HHWW...ehhehehe....:)

asa man diay iyang family that time....murag iya raman mga friends ang kuyog? hehehehe!

na kami tsang, pag abot pod namo dire nga kami raman duha nag adto sa city hall...dali ra kaau woi....lisod lagi ning poorz atong bana kay dinalian tanan....pero sige lang kay magpakasal jud ko puhon...lol...basin diay maka daug ko ug lotto...waaaaaaaa....:)

thanks for sharing tsang..nalingaw ko bayot!

momgen said...

Daoy ako gani $35 ra gasto sa kasal hehhe then after ana wa na kay busy sa harvest sa blueberry. heehhe sagdi lang shy kay pohon madato ta garden wedding hehehe...

Chie Wilks said...

gatawa ko sa imong mga term diri sis oi..kaw ba..la na sa kagarbo nga wedding..samok lang ang dako nga handaan oi..if ever i am going to get married again..toinks..(ngdamgo) of course with the same fafa gary oi...i would prefer to have a solemn wedding..

anywy sis, ang importante is ang gugma sa usag-usa..tan-awa di 2 na ang inyong bundle of joy...

David said...

mami shy at least naa ka picture no...

i got married like yours...

pobre nga bana intawon... i got married 3 days after i got here... that was the coldest day of my life...

simple wedding.. apply mi marriage contract then kasal dayon... no picture... pag human kasal kaon sa wings after that.. uli mi sa apartment then dave even worked that day... seee... pareha ra ta... pakasal nalang ta dungan ni mami dhemz aron bongga mass wedding sa mga bloggers nga pobre...

lulu

kat said...

waaaa...kabuang ko ug katawa diri sa imo Tsang...grabe nako katawa diri, as in every line gakatawa ko pero at least happy ending mong duha and hopefully till end kay naa namo duha ka jewels. hala pag balogging diha ug husto kay aron naay matigum nya pakasal dayong sa church den si justine pohon ang flower girl ug jake ang ring bearer...haha dayon imbitaha mi..hehe

Seiko said...

Ahaha!!My goodness!Alam mo bang tawa ako din ng tawa while reading your post?I really enjoyed reading your story,this is the best story I've read.Ako naman ikakasal na lang ang dami ko pang drama ready to grab na at all may pa thinking thinking pa raw,kasi naman eh foreigner ba naman ang mapapangasawa,hindi ka ba nag-alala o natakot I mean di ba we're getting married sa foreigner diff'rent language & beliefs andon yung takot na magkakaintindihan ba kami?I really love your story Shy.Can't wait for the next episode.Mwah!

Cecile said...

Tsang, nalingaw ko pagbasa nimong entry uy...sige ko katawa dire ...sige lang, unsaon man kay atong mga bana pobre...dalia ra jud ang wedding....pero mas importante kay gugma jud, bisan way pera, basta masaya yun ang importante...karon naa na moy 2 bundle of joy.

basi someday yung dream wedding mo madayon na...di grande, di ba?

Jac said...

I enjoyed reading your post sis nakaka tuwa ang wedding nyo so cool pang soap opera ang dating like it!!!

Jona said...

katuwa naman love story na ito. what's important is the love between you and hubby =)

visiting you today!

Kero said...

abah, praktikal lahat! brava to you, gurl!

i was giggling half the time reading your wedding story. ako nga, i dont remmeber the restaurant we ate after the civil ceremony.

i really love the gelatto part hahahhaaaa. its is so fun and romantic and nothing lavish. i think that is what love should be :)

Lindz said...

awww sometimes hindi importante ang garbong kasal but i understand you naman... kakaibang kakaiba talaga tong story mo, pero romantic pa rin di ba kahit na hindi pang fairy tale... love it... big thumbs up to you

Tetcha said...

Di ka nag-iisa, Shy! Ako din walang church weddiing eh! Waah!

Andrea said...

LOL, suddenly I feel like a bridezilla compared to you, haha! I told my husband if he didn't make our proposal romantic than I wasn't marrying him :p Then I had to plan our wedding for over a year. Now I know it's not the wedding that matters but the marriage. I could have avoided stress if I'd have done it like you :)

P.S. Thanks so much for the nice comment the other day about Cosmo. And, also Logan's video. I agree, I hope both of them are back to normal soon!

Willa said...

waha ha ha ha,kaaliw naman ang iyong "i do" story,nagmdali daw ba at baka mauntog sa magising sa katotohanan (LOL!)
Kami naman una gusto nya kahit simple ceremony, then he started calling a resto for a reception and then flower shop and all the other stuff, when we realized na it takes too much work, we decided to have it civil na lang,his bro and his wife is our witness, reception at Ruby Tuesday. and it was already 6 yrs ago. :D

Clarissa said...

I really had a great laugh reading you wedding story,Mommy Shy!!I really needed those laughs and you never failed me.Thanks a lot!!

Thanks for the thoughts and prayers,Mommy Shy.Thanks for being at my side during this kind of times.I'm trying to have fun around here,para medyo gumaan naman ako ng konti.I really appreciate it.Thank you so much!

Clang

Chris said...

funny but thanks for sharing your story with us.. it really amazes me how God works in lives of people.. doesnt He?

Do visit our wedding day's post!

Manang Kim said...

hahaha you make me laugh shy..you are such a happy person.

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Anney said...

My first time here! I enjoyed reading this post! Have a nice weekend!

Yami said...

Hahaha. I really enjoyed reading your post, bading na bading the manner you tell it. Parang kami pala ni huney ko eh, kami-kami lang, civil wedding lang tapos kain sa kung saan after the ceremony. actually kaya lang napadali kasi we paid someone na madaliin the papers. ano na nga ba ang tawag don?

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