CC-Have I Told You Lately That I Love You?

Me: Hey Babe, how come you never tell me anymore that you love me?

Hubby: Oh! Babe, Growwww up!

Or... during rub-adab-dab time

Hubby: My babger, the one and only who ever understands me. I love my babger mwah!

Me: Oh! Babe, growwww up! Give me 20 bucks for the rub!

We don't say I love you too often now. Have I told you lately that I love you is for this week Couples Corner topic. It was hubby who always showers me with I love yous and he seldom say that to me lately because I won't answer him. The last time he said I love you to me over the phone was 3 weeks ago I think. I don't say the word I love you to him unless he ask me to but there were times that I said I love you to him when I make fun of him or teasing him.

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I was 5 months prego w/ Jake in the pics, I was ugly fuggly with bloooody pimples all over my forehead

Couples Corner- He Made me Really Angry

It's Wednesday again time for Mommyliz Couples Corner. The topic for this week is "He Made me Really Angry"! How about She Made me Really Angry??? I guess only men can make us women angry hehehehe.

Well, if you have been reading my previous couples corner entry in my blog, you already have quite few ideas of how nice my husband is, (kapag natutulog) lol and how lucky I am. waaaaaa

All I can say, only my husband Joe, only him and nothing else made me angry like hell. He bring out the beast in me, that sometimes I tend to grab a knife and stub him. Throw at him the things I am holding at including eggs. I am not really a pleasant person if I'm angry. And....

I am the only one who can make him angry as well. Patas lang ang labanan Erap. The truth is Babger is always angry hehe, even for petty thing he gets angry, but I've seen him super duper angry mostly when we had fight. He needs anger management though.lol

Couple Corner- Most Irritating/Annoying Habits

The busy holiday is over, it's time again to play the Wednesday meme called Couples Corner hosted by non other than Mommyliz a pinay mommy in Alabama. This week topic is the annoying, most irritating habits that hard to get rid off. Both I and hubby has annoying habits and let me start with this one...???
~ Flick his finger off for no reason.
~ One of babger's habits is flicking his finger at me for no reason just to pissed me off.
~ The smoking habits that I thought his new years resolution was to quit but back again after New Years day.(I'll just lift this up to the Lord)
~ The statement "Grow up" ohh I so hate this expression from him because he hasn't get it yet that he is the one needs to grow up.
~ Placing his hand in my body, legs, and anywhere else to warm it up. He thinks I'm a fire place.
~ "Where is it? yes can't find things even if it's just right in front of his nose.
~ Taking the whole bed and grab the blanket all to himself.
~ Use or open all the whipped cream and chocolate sundae all at the same time. I told him many times to finish and clean one container first coz it takes spaces in the fridge.
~ Hang his coat behind the chair instead of hanging it in the coat hanger or coat rack.
~ Leave his dirty shorts, shirt, sweat pants, clothes on the floor after changing and wherever he takes the off. (parang sawa eh)
~ Yell and swear when he is pissed, frustrated and disappointed.
~ Licking my nose, ears, neck, including butt crack gross right? Yeah this annoyed me.
~ Spanking my ass because he likes doing it. According to him I have sexy ass ehem! I don't think I have. (excuse the language)
~ Watching at me when I take a shower with the scary and pervert look in his face.
He has too many annoying habits to mention in single post.

I asked him a while ago of what habits of mine that annoys or irritates him. Well, his answer was he love everything about me hehehe I can't blame this guy I am such a lovable person whoahahahahanyanya. I know I have habits too that irritates him like;
~ Say 8:00 o' clock when the time is 8:15 or 8:50.
~ Get up from bed late and went to bed late.
~ Say $7 when the price is $7.99
~ Refrain from doing my chores, or cook if I am upset.
~ Not listening when he is talking.
~ Asking too many question and non sense question just to teased him.
~ Don't take responsibility with grocery list.
~ Lallygagging when doing some shopping, grocery or some thing and
~ I spend too much time in front of the computer. (kumakayod ang yaya kasi)
Alright guys there you go...these are all annoying so, don't do this at home hehehe patalastas portion.

Couples Corner - Unforgettable Christmas

It's Couples Corner once again hosted by Mommyliz of Rodliz Nest. Since it's Christmas, Unforgettable Christmas is the topic for this week. I think all my Christmases are unforgettable to me because aside from it's about the birth of Jesus as we Christian believed in, and Santa Claus, and gifts and more it is also my natal day (the next day). I mean ever since, I always celebrated my day on Christmas day. It's like 2 in 1 celebration bongga diba? I remembered my first Christmas here in US, we only ordered out for pizza. It was also my first Christmas and Birthday that being celebrated in different day. My MIL gave us Christmas gifts and the next day she got me a birthday cake and gift. On Christmas Eve, my SIL called us to greet Merry Christmas and Happy b-day. And now having Joe, Jake and Justine in my life and my family too, every Christmas is memorable and meaningful to me. Added with new found friends online what more could I ask for? Thanks for the visit guys, wishing you a joyful Christmas and world peace!

Couples Corner - Shopping Galore

Very interesting topic in Couples Corner for shopaholic gals, it's "shopping galore". Thanks to Mommyliz for hosting this meme. We get the chance to speak out our mind and talk about our marriage, husband and family in this Couple Corner.

Shopping is a stress reliever for me when I was single and up until now that I am married. But the only difference is I could take a loan when I was single so I have money for shopping where as now I have to ask for massage payment from babger so I have money to shop. Now that I have kids I don't shop for myself, I think of my kids first. When I was single, I like buying branded stuff but now, $1 sale on Wal-Mart will do with the brand that I don't know its name hehehe. The last time I did a shopping galore was when my husband gave me $100 as anniversary gift and that was 2 years ago. In that amount I only got couple of Victoria secret stuff and shirts at aeropostale. Ohhh boy! Imagine the value of that money here, absolutely not enough. If I shop that amount back home I would surely get a bunch. Last weekend, we went to the mall for Santa and a little shopping for family gifts. Lots of things I wanted to buy but they are very expensive. It is funny, coz every time I look at the tag, I just let go of it so quick and forget about it, then hubby would asked how much...I answered him, lets not talk about it. It's very expensive; I can't afford to buy nice things now. I'm glad the Nordstrom had a sale and bought a jacket worth 40 bucks, I was happy and contented with it. It's my reward for myself. Gone are the days when we could shop whatever we want.
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Couples Corner - When Jealousy Arises...

Our electricity just came back on few minutes ago, that is why my entry for Couple Corner is a bit late. Thanks to Mommyliz for hosting this Wednesday meme Couples Corner. And this week topic is ...when jealousy arises...

When the jealousy mega store had the jealousy super sale, my babger bought them all(pinakyaw lahat). He is not just jealous person, he is paranoid. Paranoia is a thought process heavily influenced by anxiety or fear, often to the point of irrationality and delusion. Paranoid thinking typically includes persecutory beliefs concerning a perceived threat towards oneself.

He gets paranoid when a nobody person who just glance or happen had the eyes looking at us or if my eyes wondering around and some guy passing by (kahit hindi ko pa alam my dumaan pala) babger would pout his lips and wrinkled his forehead because he was jealous. He thought I was looking at that guy and attracted with that guy. (dumi talaga ng utak ng kalbo). Every time he acted that way it irritated me. I remembered it was a month after I got here in the US when I packed up and called my sister to help me out for a ticket going home. He explained to me why and how he got that paranoia in his head, and promised to control it. Now, he is not that paranoid anymore but still has the jealousy every now and then. (Haay taong takot sa sariling multo)Now, every time hubby is jealous, I just ignored him.

I am really hoping and praying that he would change and start to trust people or himself. Amen!

Couples Corner - Kiss and Make Up

I'm sorry guys, I missed to post the last topic of Couples Corner. We were on thanksgiving vacay. Well, just imagine in some of our worse misunderstanding Sheila will always packed up and threatened out to go back to the Philippines, or divorced, sometimes I screamed like "I wanna get depooorted". I know, I'm such a bitchy brat. I just don't like fights, and we had plenty of fights as in every two weeks for more than a year in our marriage. After in all our misunderstanding hubby would just run to the nearest wendys food chain and take out some jr beacon cheese burger and chicken wrap for our kiss and make up. (yup! pagkain lang katapat ko.)

The last misunderstanding we had was 2 months ago I think. I was exhausted taking care of my kids while hubby was upstairs taking a nap, and when he woke up he went outside to smoke and chit chat to his friend over the phone. I was very tired and angry then, so when he went inside grinning, I exploded. Handed him Justine, throw the keyboards at him, put on my shoes and jacket and went for a very long walk. Our fight took like almost a week because i didn't want to make peace. I slept at Justine's room for 5 days. When my anger settled down, after many days of cooling off my mind, I decided to talk to him in a calm way. We kiss and make up by ordering out at Wendy's and went to the mall on the weekend. It takes two to tango to make the marriage work, and we are really trying hard to make it work for our kids and our family. I am praying really hard to have our marriage work out forever that we will learn to understand, respect, and trust each other and also offer our life and everything to God.

Couples Corner - First year of Adjusting to the Married Life

It's time to play for Mommyliz most awaited, titillating, stimulating, romantic, funny, exciting, reality love story of Couples Corner that makes you giggle and fall with love with the real characters and their respective stories. Click on the badge or link to join and share your story with us. Visit also other lovely, funny, and ohhhh so sweet story of other couples around at couples corner.

The topic for this week Couple Corner is "First 365 days of Being Married" Awwww the fun part of marriage hehehe. 365 days is the underestimated numbers for us, perhaps until now we are still adjusting and trying to change for the good of our family and our marriage to last. Since Hubby and I met and known each other over virtual dating, we don't know so much about the rotten side of our personality. And you only know the person so well if you live with him/her. Before I got here, my husband already told me how small his apartment was, that he had laundry and clothes hanging every where waiting for me to fold. So, the moment, I step inside his small hehehe as in 1 single studio room apartment and saw the jeans, shirt hanging in every doors of his closet I was speechless. I didn't expect to see such small room here in the US and the clutter. Thus, have to give him credit coz he cleaned for 1 week as in general, major, captain cleaning his apartment before I arrived here. I was still nice and sweet then hehehe so, no complain baby! do your job.
Living with a playful man, in one small studio type room was sweet and fun but soon we suffocate each other...lalo na ako!..will share it next week. Anyhow, in one year of our marriage lots of fun times and not fun happened like every time I go poo poo and wee wee my husband would just pop in and watch me even if I closed the door. Until, I get used to it, that's when the time he created a monster. We watched each other doing the confession time in our bathroom while watching TV at the same time. We did disgusting stuff like belching, slobbing, farting and more. There was one time we had a farting fight. I was prego with Jake and got lots of gas. I farted due to gas as in not intentionally and he farted back, so I farted back and we farted back and forth until I got mad waaaaa I lose. In our 1 year of being married, countless of nasty fights and bitchiness. I'm just glad we made it to our two years 5 months and 18 days now without killing each other. We laugh right now every time we remember our nasty, bitchy, disgusting, and funny one year of marriage. Well, they are spices of our married life.
Watch out for next week, to be continued......:-0

P.S...if you guys noticed that in my post we always fight it's because neither one of us knows how to understand and give up any fights. When I get mad, i get mad and it takes days before I get over it while when my husband gets angry it only take few minutes and he is ready to play again but I'm not. My husband is so insensitive sometimes, instead of comforting me when i feel sad or upset, he would say "Grow up" with his playful tone. So, can't blame myself if I pick a fight.

Couples Corner "I Do"

It's time for RodLiz reality love story blog meme Couples Corner. I missed last week the proposal theme I'll just include it in this week theme "I DO"...

In those times that we were still exchanging emails, he slapped the I love yows number of times on emails. I got tired hearing it so I replied the 3 corny magic words back at him on July 22. So, that was it.... That was his proposal waaaaaa(shortcut huh?!) No rings, no blah blah blah. When Joe visited me, I thought he had the ring because he said he will have it when he visit me, but nope!Nada!Wa jamu! Poorz!...Since, that day was considered the proposal, so in other words we were engaged already. At first we planned to have the wedding in the Philippines if that would helped us get the Visa quickly, and we heard fiance visa is faster than spousal so the plan had changed.

Anyhow, after the first we met, that was when he visited me in Cebu City, Babger and I had countless of fights over the phone. The last fight before I flew here in US was about the wedding. He said, we could save money for the wedding if his friend will do the ceremony....(hmmm ang eye brows ibaba mga ining) I was shocked and confuse how can his friend able to do that??? I demanded for an explanation, so he said, "his friend is a minister as he just signed up online to be one, that is why he is allowed to marry us for free because they are friends" waaaaa(atimana mga bading parang mass wedding FREE hehehe). He abused my being so nice and agreeable, it sounds like a ripped off on my part. I think I deserved a decent wedding if it's not on the church at least something legal. I was super pissed, I turned off my cellphone and not answering all his calls.
To make the long story short, I got here on May 24th, bought a ring(engagement/wedding ring) only for me because we didn't have Sapi,and we got married on the 30th...fast forward as in automatic lol hehehe(namamadali bago mag iba ang isip) We had his friends as our witness and the magistrate office was just a block away from our apartment. So, we walked over there and got married in less than 30 mins. (Buti pa sa pinas may jeepney pang masasakyan atleast may kaunting thrill hehe)Pictures courtesy by his friend girlfriend because we didn't have camera then...poorz kasi pero in love toink!
......and we said "I DO" i do..yes I do... to this judge that we don't remember the name. And off to Rita's for our reception to avail the free coupon of gelatti, while his friends off went to their own place.(Parang wala lang, buti nalng hindi friends nya ang nagkasal sa amin)nyahaha whoa!lol. Alrighty guys, now visit the other couple corner and read some real, romantic, awesome, fabulous, solemn, all white wedding. ciao!

Couple Corner#3- Love!Love! Love

My entry for Couples Corner is very late as I was very busy taking care of my lil munchkins herewho are both not feeling well because both of them has cough and colds. Both of them already had harsh voices due to the hard cough. So, I was having second thought and running out of time in writing my "We are Inlove" post for Couple Corner hosted by Liza. I love this meme, that is why even if its late already got to share my luvtory hehehe. Let me start by sharing this;
lOve knows no reason, love knows no lies, love has no eyes, but love s not blind, love sees but it dosn't mind, it simply enables one to see things others fail to see..'
This is really true, you get blinded with love. Babger already fell in love with me after two months of exchanging emails and phone conversation. While I was in denial until I met him in person. Imagine this, on the first time he called me, he can't stop talking on the phone that is why his phone bills reached almost a thousand because he didn't have the cheapest phone plan, and we talked for more than five hours. I had to charge my cell while talking coz I can't get rid of him. Actually, I really tried not to believed in love, because for me two people fell in love because the choose to. But when hubby started controlling my life when we were still BF/GF I just don't understand what power or forces why I can't refuse to whatever he said despite my stubbornness. So, after my husband's visits he came back to the US with all the necessary documents to start the visa processed to get me here. We talked on the phone almost everyday, he had his office computer hooked up with YM so we could talk at ym every night too, and sent emails everyday, that was his order. He wasn't my husband yet but he was controlling me as his own property, even I was so annoyed and irritated I let him, well blame the love. Not just all lovey dovey we talked over the phone we also fight a lot because of this possessiveness attitude, that even if I was in the middle of my class he would call because he misses me yuck! hehehe. In the morning, my husband calls woke me up at 5:00, then called me again at lunch time to say hello, and that hello is not just hello as in 30 mins. hello and then at night he was already at his office 5:00 in the morning US time to talk to me. What I don't understand, even if I was complaining a lot to myself I just can't say NO. I was having doubts and second thoughts of coming here to live with that kind of attitude, but I already surrendered the Bataan plus I had this promised to myself that if I reach 30 and I am still single, I am not gonna marry anymore and rather stay single for the rest of my life. So, if I broke up with him, I can't find any guy as persuasive, thoughtful and handsome like him, and he love me and I don't want to get hurt or hurt him either. With all the divine intervention, I was convinced and believed that he is the right man for me. I really don't want to leave my job and good life back home but I had to chose between work and love. Well the latter won. My principal said, I better filed and absence of leave instead of resignation just in case... The day before my flight we still had a fight about some disagreement. To end this story i still went to the airport and get on the plane by myself and wave bye bye to Cebu City and Philippines. I sent my friends text messages saying goodbye and called my parents since no one knows about my plans including my parents, aunts and some close friends. Only my closest friends at school knew that I am leaving on the 24th of May. I guess we are in love, despite of our differences, disagreement, race, cultures blah blah blah we still got married and continue being poor and in love with our adorable bundles of joy waaaaahh.




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Couple Corner#2- First Time We Met/Dined out

Wednesday again, and another interesting topic in Couples Corner hosted by Liza of Rodliz's Nest. So, stop by there to read more couples first meetings.

It took 30 years for me to found my man, (sinampal ko kaya kasi bakit ngayon lng dumating....just kidding lol) He is persuasive and has the power to control me that made me stay home after work. Here is our story;

My husband and I found each other through online dating site and we continued our conversation by email at first then phone calls. According to him, one simple message that caught his interest towards me was the way I replied to his first email. I was a happy go lucky kind of person when I was single so, when I read his first email I replied "I'll be gone for a week and I will just read your message when I get back from Boracay" because at that time I was on my way to Boracay, I just made a quick check on my mail. For him, my message sounded like we've known each other for a long time. While me on the other hand, didn't think that he will still be there when I came back from my summer vacation. And then he started calling me constantly that made his phone bills ridiculously crazy as in he borrowed money from her sister to pay for the phone bills otherwise it will get cut off. So, our communication by phone and email going on and on, he wrote me a poem on the moment of his silly writing here is the poem.
once a day, and sometimes more.
you knock upon my daydream door.
and i say warmly come right in.
nice to see your smiling face again.
We never chatted on YM at first because his computer was old and slow plus no YM. So, I sent him couple of my picture and he sent me only this.


To make the story short, he went to see me and spent Christmas and New Year on December of 2007. He stayed in Marriott Hotel in Cebu City and the closest place for our first Dinner was in Ayala food court waaaaaa. We dine out everyday in Ayala and some other restaurants in the mall during his 9 days visit there. Sometimes, I took him to my apartment and cook his fave fried chicken. So, there you go guys, that's how we first met and now we have two lovely bundle of joy that keep our days busy.




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Couple's Corner#1 - Meet Mr. and Mrs. Worthington

If you love to share story about your marriage, relationships, love story as a couple and stuff, then head on to Couple's Corner hosted by Liz of Rodliz's Nest. First week of Couple's Corner meme and this week's topic is Introducing myself and my better half. Good thing we are not on war right now, so I'm in the mood to say good things about my better half waaaa. And here we go;


Sheila Requieron here, 100% pinay. Born and raise in Camp 14, Libona Bukidnon the land locked plateau in North Central Mindanao. It is also considered the biggest pineapple plantation in the Far East. My father used to work as a private security in Del Monte pineapple Philippines for 20 years. I have 6 sibs, 3 girls and 3 boys, the eldest is my half brother from my fathers previous relationship. I'm a teacher by profession and now stay at home mom to my two adorable babies and full time house maid opppps house wife rather to my Babger. They are the reason I quit my job back home and moved here in the US last May of 2007. I am nice, sweet person according to my friends and devil sometimes and impulsive according to my sisters grrrr.



Meet my Babger, Joseph Worthington in paper, Joe to his Mom, sibs and friends and Joedub to me. Born in New York and raise in Slippery Rock, Pennsylvania. He is the youngest and only boy in the family. He has 2 sisters which are both nice and professional. According to him he has a Welsh blood and the Worthington was from Germany who came to Arkansas USA. He was in the military for 5 years until a certain incident that almost causes his life gave him the reason to retire early. After he left the military, he went back home and finished college and graduate school as a working student and thru scholarship. Right now, he worked as a Math prof. in one of the prestigious University here in Pittsburgh. He was been divorced for 17 years when we met. He told me we were compatible and the right man for me, that's how he got me. He is nice person but conceited and annoying sometimes. And one thing I am sure of, he is a very loving father to our kids.




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