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Friday, January 29, 2010

Mommy Moments - Welcoming A New Sibling

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Welcoming A New Sibling is this week Mommy Moments theme hosted by Chris. Jake was only 17 months old when Justine was born. He didn't understand yet and he still needed both of our attention. He wasn't happy when we left him with hubby's friend at home and gone all day during delivery. Right after I gave birth, hubby went home to get Jake. As soon as Jake saw me with a baby in my arm at the hospital he cried and throw a fit. He was mad at me and did not even want to come closer to me nor to the baby (Justine). It wasn't a pleasant welcome when Jake saw Justine at the hospital for the first time. He even took a swipe at Justine the first time he saw her. He was crying at first and then few hours from then he started to get interested with the stuff inside the hospital than to his baby sister. I stayed at the hospital by myself with Justine while hubby had to come home everyday because of Jake. The next day, Jake still not friendly, and not interested with Justine until he slowly calmed down. He usually hits or kicks Justine if hubby and I panic or reprimand him and of course the sibling rivalry and jealousy was always there up until now.


Well, despite of all the hitting and mean treatment Justine always adored her big brother and giggled every time Jake come up to her and play or should I say roll her over, sat on her, lay on her, hug her so tight and stuff like that. She always has lovely smile and laughs for her brother.

Jake is a sweet big bro, he loves kissing Justine, give her a hugs, shares his toy and sometimes feeding her pritzels, cookies, and stick.

19 comments:

Lulu said...

wow nice pics... i don't have an entry for this week

Cecile said...

Ako rin walang entry gaya ni Mommy Lu; ka sweet and caring naman ni Jake...

teJan said...

hehhe..naopen rajud... ka cute man ni baby jus..unya kay si jake perti man lagi na lipaya..hahaha!

cute jud oi kung duha na no?..hmmm

ayo ayo shang!

Laikka said...

ka nice...dili pako ka relate oi..kung unsay effect laikka inig magkamanghud..mao pass sa ko ron!! hahah.

moingon raman sya..ang ako bb brother naa sa tiyan ni mama ang bb sister dia sa ako tiyan..waaaa!

Jac said...

That's true sis hindi ma iiwasan ang sibling rivalry. Naku ang pictures nila Justine and Jake is so precious lalo na yung big hug ni Jake nakaka tuwang pa masdan..
Happy weekend!!

momgen said...

kacute sa mga kaanakan oy hehehhe.

Chris Adventures

Vacuum1st said...

Hi Friend, we exchange links?

Seiko said...

Normal lang talaga magkaroon ng sibling rivalry but we take time to explain it to them even before the baby arrives and to show them that the new baby is not replacing them.

Ang cute talaga ng smile nila. Love that picture the most nasa couch sila and they were both smiling. Priceless moments! :D

k said...

haguy cute kaayo ang kuya jake kay love nya iya manghud...kaapan lang kay hungitan man pod nya ug cookies hahaha

Bambie dear ★ said...

lol kakatuwa naman ang story mo.. buti na lang pala, lil sister, kung lil brother baka mas mahirap i-handle. Im sure mas magiging close pa sila paglaki, syempre for now, nag-aadjust ba ang dating only child, bigla nahati kasi ang attention.. i should expect these things and ready myself pag nasundan na si anzu.. ang hirap yata sa umpisa no..

nwei happy weekends sa inyo =) mmwah

ruby said...

ana pud si Jaden at first, nihilak sa hospital, pero karon close na sila,, ako na masugo tig kuha sa diaper..

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chubskulit said...

Ang gaganda naman tong mga pictures ng yung mga mestisahing anak hehehe... Just dropping ec bading and realized di ko pa la to nabasa hehehe...

♥Willa♥ said...

Sweet ni Kuya Jake kay li'l sis ah, hindi halatang tinitira nya ng ptalikod, lol!

***
Wala akong MM entry this week sisterette, wala akong mga naka save na photo, lahat naka print out at nasa baul ng kailaliman, wala akong panahon maghukay, LOL!

At si Patrick, oo,malapit na akong maabutan, actually yung shoe size nga nya maluwag na sa akin.pero ok lang, kahit maging mala-higante pa sya, he's always my baby, (mommy mode) :D

Happy Weekend sis!

David Funk said...

Wow! What such adorable kids you have there, Shydub! That's also sweet of Jake to have that kind of love for his little sister like he does.

Thanks for sharing my friend!

Mel Alarilla said...

Alam mo Shy nakaka touch itong mga litrato nyo nang pamilya mo. I really hope and pray na maging very ideal and loving ang maging relationship nyo sa isa't isa. Mas mahirap talaga na lalaki ang panganay at masundan nang isang babae dahil seloso talaga ang panganay na lalaki kaysa panganay na babae. Wala kasing naging problema kay Rose at John at kay Rylie ang pagdating ni EJ dahil pinaalagaan agad ni Rose si EJ kay Rylie. Napukaw ang motherly instinct ni Rylie kaya minahal niya kaagad at tinanggap si EJ. Ganun din naman ang nangyari kay Andrea at Fifi ni Kathy. Mahal na mahal ni Andrea si Fifi na minsan nasasaktan pa si Andrea ni Fifi. Siguro ipakita ninyong magasawa ang equal attention sa kanilang dalawa para hindi magselos si Jake. Mukhang bata pa lang ay kinakakitaan na nang weaknesses si Jake sa kanyang development. Baka nakakaapekto sa kanya ang madalas ninyong pagaaway nang mister mo. Piliting itago sa mga bata ang anumang arguments ninyo para hindi sila maapektuhan. I am still praying for all of you my friend. Thanks for the post. God bless you all always.

Inya said...

Precious moments talaga ang mga ganitong eksena sa isang pamilya. Happy Mommy Moments!

my entry is here
http://titik-atibapa.com

Mayet said...

I have a 4 month old and my eldest is still adjusting to the new arrival.

Chris said...

i am glad that they are now getting along! thanks for the stories and the pictures!

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